on Finding Love for the Woman over 40...
what is the best advice for women over 40 seeking love? The
first thing is to ignore the gainsayers - if you listen to
them you may end up thinking you'll never find love. The truth
is huge numbers of women over 40 do find new love every year.
what's more, you could do a lot worse than starting your search
for love at our recommended friend finding and dating service,
- just use the search panel to the right to see who's out
enough of the plug! Read what Stephanie Constantina, dating
author and relationships expert, has to say on the subject
of finding love after 40 below.
Over 40 CAN Find Love!
Copyright Feb 2014 (c) Stephanie Constantina, Chief Staff Writer
begin by getting something straight. If you're in your 40s
you're actually still quite young. People these days (in the
West at least) are living well into their 80's and 90's. So
if you're, say, 45 then you're probably only half-way through
from being on the scrap heap, you're just starting out on
the second half of your life. You're still pretty young, get
realize this reality then you have taken the first step toward
shedding your fears and hang ups about dating again at the
age of 40 or 50.
step is to understand that there are very large numbers of
people out there dating who are your own age! These days,
with such a high divorce rate in particular, to be dating
in your 40s or 50s is normal. Long gone is the stereotype
that by 40 everyone has settled down with their life-partner.
It's just not the case any more (if it ever was).
plus you have gained a great deal of life-experience, yet
as you are only half-way through you still have more to gain.
Nevertheless, compared with a woman of twenty you are a much
better prospect for most men.
a startling claim? Perhaps. Most men are strongly attracted
to youth and beauty of course, yet deep down they know it
won't last as they've seen beauty fade before their eyes in
their family, friends and acquaintances. So men over 40 may
sometimes think they are looking for a 'younger model' but
more often than not they end up with someone of their own
of their own age is at a similar emotional level as they are
in the sense of having experienced life up until that age.
A woman of their own age has also been through the same cultural
changes, the same fashions and styles in music, food, clothes
-- you name it.
So a 40
something man needs a 40 something woman if he is to have
somebody to actually talk to and to interact with through
shared experience. Youthful attraction is all very well, but
even men get bored with it in the end if there is nothing
else to propel a relationship on.
over 40 can find love at PenPalsPlanet.com
is a quick and easy to use friendship
and dating site that protects your personal
data and email address. You can join for
free, and if you want to upgrade to a
paid subscription there is no automatic
rebilling of your credit card, unlike
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profiles. Try out the search box below
and view some profiles right now:
this page at your favourite social bookmarking site:
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resources at this site that might help you to find out more
about dating, for women over 40:
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