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What is the Secret of Overcoming Shyness?
Some tips for shy singles from Stephanie Constantina, staff writer at

The secret of overcoming shyness and meeting other shy people with ease may be as simple as shifting your attention from your own head to other people's.

What do I mean by this? As a shy single person you will usually find yourself overly conscious of what other people think of you and the impression they are getting of you. Thoughts such as "She's looking at me, help!" or "What does he think of how I'm dressed?" will probably go through your mind. You feel the centre of attention when that is the last thing you want to be. Perhaps you wish the floor would swallow you up... Most shy singles feel the same, you know.

But, think for a moment. You are behaving like all shy people everywhere. Why? Simply because shy girls and shy guys tend to focus on themselves rather than on other people.

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It's a fact that most people - shy or otherwise - - are much more concerned about themselves than they are about the people they meet. They may not be as shy as you, but you can be almost certain that they are still undergoing an internal monologue focussed on themselves when they meet you.

Realising this fact - that you are not the centre of other people's attention, but they are focussing mainly on themselves - can help you to overcome your shyness. The simple fact is that most people are just not that interested in other people so much as interested in themselves. Focus on this idea by focussing on the other person. Think about how the person is feeling, ask non-invasive questions and direct the attention taking place in the conversation onto the other person and this will help if you are a shy woman or shy man.

The other piece of advice I have to give you, the shy girl or shy guy, is that you might feel less intimidated by looking for people to meet at a pen pals style meeting site, rather than a strightforward dating site. The pen pals approach is less in your face - you might be there just to make friends, for example. So there's less pressure. One of the best pen pals sites I've come across (because it protects your personal details and gives you more control than most) is It's free to join, and you don't have to use the site beyond what you feel comfortable doing. Why not take it a step at a time? Go and look at the site first. Then carry out some free searches for other shy people (or perhaps look for people who obviously aren't shy - another approach) then only contact people or take part when you feel ready. Give it a try - it could change your life.

How to Find Single Men or Single Women (Shy or Otherwise) Online - Resources:

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Meet People (Women Singles) - Photo Profiles: 18 to 32
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What women want in a man
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Women over 40 online dating
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Meet Single People Online
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