Military Single Dating and Military Pen Pals – The First Email

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What should go in your first email to a military single? How do you get over that initial contact when making military pen pals? Our guest author Andrea Carless looks at what you should say in that first email…

Dating Military Pen Pals? Entice Your Uniform Date With the Right Email

By Andrea Carless

To be able to construct the perfect e-mail for your military single, the first thing you should know is how to make it. Writing a good e-mail in your first contact online would reflect the kind of relationship the two of you will have in the future.

Here are a dating tips that you should keep on mind when making your e-mail and some “Thou Shall” tips to win your perfect date:


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1. Make your email short! The first mistake that most people who are dating military singles online is that they make their first emails too long. First write the most important details, don’t cram too much information in one e-mail. Remember, you’re giving him/her a message, not your entire autobiography. First impressions count, so write a few paragraphs that can summarize you well. Besides, if they are interested in you, then they can see your profile for themselves. Remember, you use your profile, and not your first email, to sell yourself. Also, it’s revealed that short emails come off as confident!

2. Okay, now that we’ve established the length, we go to the general tone of the email. Keep it upbeat! Nobody wants to get to know a damper, right? Make sure that you sound upbeat and lively. Make it sound like you are someone who’s fun to be with, which I am sure you are. So phrases like, “Right now, I’m sick,” or “Life is boring,” or “The weather here sucks,” or the clincher, “Life sucks,” are no-no’s! Come on! If you were in their shoes, would you like to contact someone saying stuff like that? Write in a warm, friendly tone and use positive statements.

3. Here are some of the other things that I recommend you do:

A. Thou shall mention something in their profile that intrigued you. Chances are that their profile caught your interest, so tell them about it. That also shows them that you are serious about getting to know them. This is where knowing their profile comes in handy. If she liked country pubs, and it so happens that you like it too, then mention it. For example, “I noticed that you like country pubs, well me too!” it shows that you took time to read through her profile and that your interested.

For the gentlemen out there, if the girl happens to like things which you consider to be “just for the guys”; such as football, car racing or wrestling then don’t offend her by saying, “Wow”! A girl who actually likes…” due to the fact that you’d be sounding like a sexist, which is something we’d like to avoid. Don’t put her in a situation that will make her feel awkward.

Likewise girls, if he liked “Titanic” or he thinks that “Take That” are the greatest, then don’t make statements that will make him think that he’s a softy. Just think that he is a sensitive guy who likes the same stuff that you do, alright?

B. Have fun and just act natural. Be easy going and I’m sure that the person on the other end will see that come across. Don’t feel that everything rests on that email because the anxiety might just destroy all the fun that you may have. If you keep these tips in mind, along with some of the other tips in the previous article, then that ideal uniform date is now practically yours!

Just couple them with perseverance and patience, then you’re all set.

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