How To Approach Women Tips and Thoughts
Commentary by Henry Speldings

Following on from my advice on how to approach women posted yesterday at Approaching Women Tips: How to today I’ve posted an article from a guest author on the very same topic.


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In the article below, author Kendall Davidson describes five ‘techniques’ on how to approach women. Very useful, in fact. But as an aside let me add that in many ways it’s a pity that we have to reduce this process to “techniques” (I’m guilty of this too) as my central message is that women are people too (surprise, surprise) and if you want to get to know people (of whichever gender) then you have to find a way to relate to them. So the word “techniques” smacks of a falseness somehow that doesn’t quite cut it in my book – you know what I mean?

Having said that, the first few moments when a man approaches a woman are something of a special category because all that is happening is doing so in a kind of rarified atmosphere. For the man there’s a lot riding on it. This could be the moment he begins one of the most successful relationships of his life, so what he says and does in the next minute are very important to him. In this context how to approach women techniques will seem highly relevant to him.

Likewise for the woman being approached. She can see he’s interested in her, or he wouldn’t be approaching her at all. If she likes the look of him, for her too there may be a lot riding on the next minute, just as there is for the man in fact.

Anyway, our guest author gives some good and useful tips on how to approach a woman. The only comment I would have about them is that his tip number 5 could put some women off if they then see the man as a womanizer. Also, most men don’t have several women they can call on to act in this way — if they did then they would be someone with lots of female friends and little need of tips on how to approach women, I would think. Just my opinion. There’s great advice in the rest of the article though, so pay close attention men!
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Tips & Techniques For How to Approach Women
By Kendall Davidson

How to approach women is one of the biggest challenges faced in getting a date, especially because it’s the first step. Most men think about how to approach women and the fear of being shot down instantly enters their minds. For men who have this problem, I’ve listed five sneaky tips for how to approach women.

Tip 1: Positivity

Being positive, confident, and showing it is a great technique. Women are attracted to positive and confident men. Smile at her, and at other people too, this shows her that you’re having a good time, and people in general like being around people who look like they’re having fun.

Tip 2: Meet Her Gaze

Make eye contact with her when you can. Give her a smile, and if she smiles back, this is a signal that she may be ready to be approached. Women who are ready to be approached are usually dressed up, are with a group of girlfriends, and they’re probably laughing a lot.

Tip 3: The Coincidence Approach

When you see a woman, wait for her to go up to the bar. Follow her there and stand beside her. Get the bartender’s attention and tell her she can order first, she’ll appreciate it. If she orders a drink you wouldn’t mind drinking either (make sure it isn’t a fruity drink designed for ladies), tell the bartender: “Make that two”, this will catch her attention. Say something like “Ah, I see we share the same poison” and smile. Gauge her reaction, if it’s a positive one, you can start a conversation.

Tip 4: The Social Butterfly

If you’re at a private party with several people you know and you see a woman you like, start socializing with everyone. Give everyone you know about five or ten minutes then move to the next group. The woman will notice this and perceive you as popular, someone many people want to talk to. This will spark her interest in you. Next, make the mistake of saying hello to her like you know her. Give it a second and say “I’m so sorry, I thought you were a friend of mine.” Then introduce yourself. By this time, she’ll know that you’re someone worth talking to. You can start a conversation with her on the spot.

Tip 5: The Wing-GIRLS

This is a great technique, bring wing-GIRLS. Ask several of your good female friends to come out with you. Entering a bar with several good looking and well dressed women will immediately catch attention. Your wing-GIRLS serve one or two purposes, they can either be the ones to go up to the woman you like, engage her in conversation then introduce you, or they become the “competition.” Any woman you approach will be eyeing your wing-GIRLS, seeing them as threats, so the woman will now try everything to keep your attention. Giving her your attention pays her a compliment. You’re surrounded by beautiful women, but you’d rather talk to her!

Admittedly, there are countless tips and techniques with regard to the topic of approaching women. Men must note that everything cannot be learned in one article as this subject is something that is mastered with continuous research or reading and with actual experience. The above are just a few tips or techniques for how to approach women that you may or may not have heard of, but the important thing for you to do now is to get out there and make it happen!

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