“Get Girlfriend, Shy Guy!”

A simple and direct instruction to get a girlfriend, isn’t it? Maybe you need an order like that if you are a shy guy who tends to hang back and won’t do anything about it unless something shakes you into action.

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The problem of how to get a girfriend can be a serious one for a shy guy who simply has no idea what to do to find that girl. There’s a lot more to this subject area, but here’s a simple way to become part of the dating scene even though you are shy. Join a good quality online dating site (we recommend PenPalsPlanet.com) then simply become part of everything that’s going on. Because its online you shouldn’t have to face the nerves you feel in an offline situation, but you should still grow in confidence when talking online to girls.

So it shouldn’t be too long before you’re not such a shy guy after all and can get a girlfriend with at least a certain amount of confidence.

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Resources at this site to help you get a girlfriend if you are a shy guy:

Girlfriend: Find a New Girlfriend
Our first page on the topic of how to find a new girlfriend; some useful links.

Find a Girlfriend
‘Find A Girlfriend’ contains a useful article on how to do just that in 5 easy steps. You might want to read this in conjunction with the information on this page and the article below.

Online Dating Tips for Shy Guys
A useful article here on where and how you can go about meeting single women; also contains a video on things to talk about with girls.

Other resources to get a girlfriend:

Like everything on the web there are lots of resources out there, sometimes not couched in terms of how to find a girlfriend but along the lines of how to attract single women. Specifically on the topic of how to find a girlfriend the resources tend to be a bit patchy, I found. Here’s one that caught my eye because it’s different: Find a girlfriend with your iphone and here’s the video itself (of course you need an iphone to do this).

The HUGE Advantage of Being a “Shy Guy”
By Stephan Erdman

Shyness can be overcome, or said the other way around, confidence can be learned. But shyness isn’t easy to learn is it?

Honestly… have you ever found a guy that has always been “confident” and actually gets what a shy person is going through?

Ok, so what’s my point? Surely nobody has ever tried to be shy right? Here is why the above is important for you if you are a shy guy!

Women love to be understood on a deeper level.

They love it if you “get” them and can intuitively make them feel comfortable. It’s called “empathy”. (in fact I lied: everyone loves to be understood on a deep level…but women especially often find that guys are not “getting” them)

So do you think that there are many women that are shy? Women who are beautiful inside and out? You bet. Millions.

So when those women want a boyfriend…

Do you think those “naturally confident guys” who have never really experienced shyness or introversion.. GET them? Often they don’t.

Often they even overlook them.

They just see a “shy” girl..someone “without a sense of humour” who isn’t “fun” to be around and then they either don’t talk to them or find them difficult to understand..or they get frustrated because all the things they do that sometimes used to work with the extrovert girls don’t work with this girl…

Why? Because those guys are looking at the girl from the outside judging her intuitively as “boring” or “tricky” and don’t have much empathy. They don’t GET them.. because they haven’t shared their experience. Or when they try to “chat them up” they are hitting a brick wall because they never get close to creating any rapport with the girl.

So those girls who are shy or introvert by nature are literally begging to be “found” by someone who “gets” them rather than judges them. And you know what? Still waters run deep. Shy girls can be amazing when they open up. They can be amazing to be in relationships with once they trust you.

So being a shy guy who has learned to be confident enough to be striking up a conversation without bullshit or acting, who is confident enough to have a relaxed conversation on a date and make a girl comfortable and who has empathy will be a gift to those girls! And will have a HUGE advantage over those loud “confident” types.

Only thing is: You have got to be able to deal with your shyness and manage to stay “operational”. With that I mean you have got to be able to stop your nerves or shyness from ruining your dates (and from blocking your natural empathy to express itself)..

If you want to know how to do that visit my website and download the “The Shy Guy’s Guide To Getting Girls Part 1-How to Stop Dating Nerves”, learn the Shy Stop Switch and learn to switch off your nerves and shyness in 1 min. Even if your “inner shy guy” is telling you right now that that isn’t possible. But just trust me. I have been there. And now I am teaching this technique to guys like you and me.

To the power of being a “shy” guy!

I’ll see you over there..

Stephan Erdman
Visit Now! http://www.TooShyToDate.com

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“Get a Girlfriend, Guaranteed”
“Just one trick Mark learned … got a guy with horrible approach anxiety to approach twenty women in one afternoon…”
5 ebooks, 2 Audio courses, and one DVD of video designed and delivered in a structured, easy-to-follow way, presented in bite-size chunks.
Find our more here
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.

Go for free to a great online place to Get a Girlfriend – just use the panel to the top right of this page to access the girls’ photo profiles…

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