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Finding single women who are seeking men ought to be reasonably easy on the face of it. But life is full of complexity and you often just can’t tell whether a single woman is even interested in meeting men.

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Offline, that is. One way to be sure that you are in the right place at the right time when it comes to how to find single women seeking men is to use a good online dating site. I always point people in the direction of PenPalsPlanet.com when it comes to this area. Why? Oh simple things like your personal details being well protected… And millions of singles being available. You know, the things that actually matter in such a site. In fact, you can browse the single women at PenPalsPlanet.com very easily using the panel to the right of this page. Yes, the site’s management have allowed me to put the panel on this site.

Anyway, if you aren’t going to go down the online dating or pen pals route then you may have a task ahead of you. Consider this: just what is a single women exactly? And how do you find single women seeking men and not other women, or not seeking dating at all because they are already in a relationship? How can you tell if some of these single women are determined never to have a relationship at all? Yes, they do exist. It’s a complicated area, one that today’s guest author has given considerable thought to (see her article on single women below).

First some resources. Find Single Women Online – The Secret of How to This is an article purporting to provide the secret of how to find single women online that suit you. You know it is with these “secrets” articles, nevertheless it does make a useful point, so is worth checking out. Single Ladies: Single Lady Dating. This is another of our pages, all about dating single ladies – and surprisingly not about the chart topper :-) Instead it features a video warning about harmful dating advice. For those who want more personals we have Single women seeking men in the United States. Of course, to find single women seeking men in any country you can use the panel on the right of this page, but here’s an additional link. It goes straight to Friendfinder profiles of single women residing in the US. Now for the article on just what is a single women seeking men (scroll down)…


Singles – Do You Really Know If You Are a Single Woman?
By Dr. Karen Gail Lewis

Single Women is a phrase that is used promiscuously. It is tossed around without any clear distinctions among the many different ways in which a woman is single. The misuse and confusion may cause social, political, and possibly emotional damage, as well as unwarranted bias against singles. Here is a humorous look at what can actually be a serious consequence of the confusion.

Have you ever referred to yourself as “unmarried”? If so, think about this: A negative prefix in front of a word implies a deviation from the norm. Married with “un” in front means you are describing yourself by who you ARE NOT. If we extend this to its logical conclusion, this means you are a “non-man”; if you are short, you are “non-tall.” So, every time you call yourself “unmarried,” you are referring to yourself as who you are not.

But, that’s not all. Even if you eliminate the deficit term “unmarried” from your vocabulary, there is still confusion about who you are because the phrase “single woman” encompasses a variety of circumstances. It refers to women who want to marry for the first time and those who want to remarry. It refers to those who don’t want to be married at all but wouldn’t mind living with a man in a committed relationship. It includes women who are dating and those who wish they were dating. And those who have no interest in dating, like nuns. And if this isn’t confusing enough, society (and the Census Bureau) consider married and partnered lesbians as single.

I must have been really bored one day when I started counting the multiple ways in which a woman could be “single.” I came up with a number of different categories. There are those women who have never had a marriage certificate, the Always Single. Then, there are those who did have one but are now divorced or widowed. I’ve already mentioned lesbians and those who have absolutely no interest at all in being with a man, like nuns.

Each of these five categories has 5 subcategories; women could:

* Have children

* Not have children

* Be in a committed relationship

* Not be in a committed relationship

* Willing to be in a committed relationship

* Not willing to ever be in a committed relationship

There is also a sixth category. This includes those whom society identifies as single, even if they don’t see themselves that way. For example, Marsha and Louise. Marsha has been living with Lenny for 15 years, yet according to the Census Bureau, she is single. Yet, Louise, who has been separated but never legally divorced from Martin for those same 15 years, is statistically married.

Then, what about age? Certainly, a 20 year old is an entirely different “single” than a 83 year old, even though both may never have had a husband. And, women who have children are a different single than those without; those with young children are different from those with grown children. And, many women who have previously been married grapple with whether they are “divorced” or “single.”

If this isn’t enough, you can have some more fun by figuring out “When did you become single?” If you had once been married, it’s a simpler answer; you can check your divorce papers. Except, if you are Louise, it’s not so simple, since she is not divorced from Martin. Of course, if she’s now living with another man, she actually may consider herself married!

Now, for those who never had the gold ring, when did you become single? Society has no rite of passage for transitioning from adolescence to adulthood. So, did you become single when you turned 13, 16, 21? (In one of the retreats I run for all types of singles, one women said she became single at birth.)

We’re not through yet. Society has no recognized distinction for people moving from being a young single (i.e., late teens) to an adult single (i.e. worrying about the proverbial clock). Yet, we certainly have different expectations for each. If a 17 year old without a husband wanted to adopt a child, people’s reaction would be very different than if a 42 year old wanted to.

By this point, you may be asking: “What difference does all this make?” Well, in some way, it makes no difference. But, on the other hand, it makes a great big difference.

Think how often you or someone you know, or someone on television, or a politician talks about “singles.” Societal values and legal and political policies about singles make sense with some definitions of singles but not with others. For instance, “Singles should be celibate until married.” Would everyone agree the 65 year old Always Single woman should still be celibate?

Or, what about Louise and Marsha. Marsha may be approved for certain insurance and legal benefits that are denied Louise.

So, if you are feeling badly about being single, be sure you know which single you are feeling badly about being!

If you have enjoyed thinking about the definition of being single, you will enjoy this free gift, “The 15 Golden Rules for Being An Emotionally Healthy Single.” Go to http://www.DrKGL.com/rules And, be sure to look at the weekend retreats I run for single women, http://www.UniqueRetreatsForSingleWomen.com

Dr. Karen Gail Lewis, The Woman Who Helps Women And The People They Love

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