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There are many techniques that single
guys can use to attract a single woman. Here is just one of
them that can be very effective...
How to Seduce a Woman
Using 'Deflection Theory'
by Tiffany
Taylor
There's something that often happens when you're out playing
the 'seduction game' -- that is, when you're actively looking
out for girls you think you'd like to hook-up with. Many men
have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience
it when they themselves are out playing the game.
It usually goes something like this: you're in a group,
talking to a couple of girls. You're with a friend or two,
perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You've got your
eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make
something happen, make a bit of a connection.
Thing is, she's proving the hardest to connect to -- sure,
she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she's
not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much,
if at all.
"It's like she's playing
hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem
to be much more playful and flirty."
It's like she's playing hard to get
or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more
playful and flirty. This doesn't happen because you
aren't her type or just because sometimes these things happen
(or don't) -- there's a different, special reason the girl
you're interested in doesn't appear to be interested in you
and it's got a lot to do with psychology and social standing.
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You see, when you show you're interested in a good-looking
girl who's with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her
ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you've chosen and
are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated
importance.
"...She also knows that
if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted
to YOU, she'll lose the higher social value she has over her
friends..."
However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really
flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she'll lose the higher
social value she has over her friends (probably the reason
you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains
her unattainable, "I'm a bit too good for you" status.
However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using
DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and
reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting
your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends.
When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth
than your target female) more attention and affection, you
challenge her ego.
"...the girl you're really
interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest
in you by flirting and being playful..."
So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy
of her circle of friends, the girl you're really interested
in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by
flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives
into wanting what she feels she cannot have -- and, of course,
you'll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest
of the group and the one you wanted in the first place.
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Here's how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends
to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been
challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable
desire to get your attention and "win" you back.
"...this immediately makes
her want to fight for your attention..."
1. Use strong eye contact
when talking to all of the girls. However, when you're talking
to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards
one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst
themselves or to your friend/friends if you're with any) and
give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This
jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind
of the girl you're really interested in and immediately makes
her want to fight for your attention.
2. Casually make physical
contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch
them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when
laughing and joking.
3. When sitting down
or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more
(as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction
of one of her friends more than her.
"Using deflection theory
to challenge a girl..."
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl-you're-interested-in's
ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological
technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine
it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite
sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can
be the guy that gets the girl!
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