Should
You Relocate To a Different Country for Love?
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Relocating to
a different country or even to a different part of your own country
if it is a lengthy travelling distance from your origins is a complicated
question. It is complicated by the fact there there is a lot to
take into account and it is further complicated by the individual
circumstances of each and every case, so it is hard to give general
guidelines.
Firstly, it
would be fair to sday, it will depend upon how attached to your
original location or country you are. There are of course people
who emigrate to other countries not for love but for employment
or simply for a better way of life. So love is an additional factor.
It may be pertinent to consider who you will be leaving behind at
this point. What family and friends do you have and are you willing
to effectively 'give them up' in exchange for your new goals.
This has be
be considered with great care and speedy decisions are not to made,
as once implemented it is very difficult to reverse the process
if it is realized that a mistake has been made.
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had better do your research very thoroughly and learn everything you can
about your possible new location and what your life would be like there.
If you are from a different culture are you willing to give up your old
way of life and adopt the new? This may be much more difficult than you
image, despite your enthusiasm for the new culture. It is entirely one
thing to love a different culture while still living within your own from
living 24/7 in a different culture. Even if you embrace it at first the
desire for old familiar things lost, a kind of homesickness, will eventually
creep in. Are you prepared to handle this when it comes as it inevitably
will?
Moving on to more practical matters. How
will you make a living in your new location? Do you have a special skill
that is in great demand in the other country? If not then you may find
it difficult to get work as a foreigner whose first language is a foreign
one not widely spoken in your new country.
What about your support system? We all need and usually have a support
system of friends, family, neighbours and fellow workers where we live.
How will you replace this in your new circumstances? How will you avoid
feelings of lonliness and isolation? You may be certain now that you are
not going to feel like this, but life has a way of proving us wrong in
what we expect and believe.
The love you feel for your new partner
may well be enough to overcome all of thse things but that does not mean
they do not exist nor will come to exist at some point in your planned
adventure. Think carefully first, plan ahead, visit your new location
several times and over a long period before you take that final step that
will, in effect, change everything.
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