The Dating Game and Should
You Begin Again?
Is dating a
game? Well, in a way, yes it is. It's a game in so far as it has
rules, you are trying to reach a goal (finding the ideal partner)
and you may or may not succeed.
like fun when you're in your early twenties, doesn't it, but what
about when you're in your 40s or 50s? With life's clock ticking
more loudly than ever before do you really want to start playing
the game again?
To begin with,
if you find yourself single and alone again, then you don't really
have much choice. But take heart, it's not as bad as it might sound
at first. The 'dating game' when you are middle-aged is not the
same dating game it was in your twenties.
If you are looking
to date people of your own age then they are in the same or a similar
boat to you. Many of them have only got back into dating again with
considerable reluctance and out of necessity, just like you. They
didn't expect to be in this position either.
So, dating people
of your own age now (at this age) usually means dating like-minded
people. They too may be divorced or bereaved with all of the emotional
pain that results. They too may have children, fears and insecurities.
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if you are dating out of necessity, because you don't want to be alone,
then you have to accept that state of affairs and do the best you can
You should also know
that by far the best way to ease yourself back into the dating game now
is by using online dating. Because there is the extra element of the Internet
in between you and the people you meet there becomes an extra cushion
to ease the situation.
By dating online initially
at least, you are anonymous, you have time to explore the online dating
world and time to look at lots of personals and consider carefully the
people behind them before you make contact. If anything it's a lot easier
and potentially safer than the more 'in-your-face' dating game of your
Want to take a step
further back and impose what is effectively another layer between you
and your potential dates? Then take the pen pals approach. If you present
yourself as a potential 'pen pal' then you are effectively saying, "I
want to meet people and chat to them online but I may or may not be interested
in actual dating." Can you see the advantages of this? It's the approach
was set up to cater for. If you like the sound of it then go there now
and check it out.
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